Over the Hill on the Yellow Brick Road, I passed a consignment store. I love looking at classic, off beat clothing so I went in. Off in a corner, I noticed a pair of shoes covered with sparkles shoved in a shoe bag. Why were those gorgeous shoes stuffed in the back of the store? I started a conversation…
Hey sparkly shoes, I totally love you! You’d look amazing with a pair of jeans and a tee shirt. Why are you sitting back here by yourself?
SPARKLY SHOES: Well, since we’re Over the Hill on the Yellow Brick Road, all the customers who come in here are growing older. They’re figuring out where they belong in the world.
Right. I’m one of them. So?
SPARKLY SHOES: So everybody thinks they’re too old to wear sparkles. People who come in the store say sparkles make them look like they’re trying to look younger in a tasteless way, even though they wish they could wear me.
To be honest, I’m struggling with the same thing. I mean, for example, I’d love to wear sparkle eye shadow, but I’m afraid the glitter will get stuck in my wrinkles.
SPARKLY SHOES: Interesting…
And I’d love to wear sparkle nail polish, but I feel on some level I’d be trying to look like a teenager. Or a four year old.
SPARKLY SHOES: Even if you put sparkles on one finger and a solid nail polish color on the other four?
Tried it. There’s still something that doesn’t feel quite right about it.
SPARKLY SHOES: It’s going to be hard for me to hear this, but, what’s your problem with sparkly shoes?
As I grow older, my feet are more particular. It’s much harder to find shoes that are comfortable. So, the thought of trying to find shoes that don’t hurt AND have sparkles seems like an impossible dream.
SPARKLY SHOES: This is depressing me.
Don’t get me wrong. I love sparkles. They tap right into my playful, elegant, side. I just can’t figure out when, where and how to wear them. I’m in the middle of the process.
SPARKLY SHOES: So then let me ask you a question. While you’re trying to find your comfort level with sparkles, what am I supposed to do with my life? I still want to bring joy into the world. I’m not getting any younger either.
How about this? You could sit by a window.
SPARKLY SHOES: Sit by a window? Why? What would I do there?
Make rainbows.
SPARKLY SHOES: Are you serious?
Yes. Go ahead. Try. it.
SPARKLY SHOES: Wow!!!! Omg! Awesome!
I know!
SPARKLY SHOES: I never knew I had it in me! I guess no matter how old we get, we can find inner beauty and bring it into the world.
For a shoe, you’re impressively cerebral.
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😂😂😂 I love this. And I love sparkles. I went through this face where I thought I was outgrowing sparkly things but then I thought, what rule book is that in?! I love sparklies and I’ll be wearing them when I’m 73. Love those shoes!
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You’re my role model! I’m putting on my sparkly shoes right now! 🙂
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I love sparkles too! I buy sparkly greeting cards, sparkly Christmas decorations, and the odd shirt with sparkles too. I love those shoes, and I’d wear them, even though I’m 62.
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Cool. I have to admit, I took a photo of one pair of my sparkly shoes for this post. But I have two additional pairs in my closet. Plus a sparkle dress. And a pink, sparkle belt. I think it’s time that my sparkles come out of the closet.
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You have a sparkly taste I must say .. 🙂
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Yes, maybe I’m a tad over the top with sparkles. LOL
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That made me smile. I love it!
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It makes me smile when I know I made YOU smile. 🙂
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Wait! Wait! Did they go home with you.
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Yes they did go home with me. I’m trying to decide if it will be too weird to wearing sparkle shoes with eyeballs. 🙂
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Oh.. I loved those googly eyes..
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I love that one shoe only has one eye. Who says shoes need to have two eyes? 🙂
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I love the sparkles too! You’re never too old for sparkles or animal print!
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And what about purple hair? 🙂
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Hahahaha, well it all depends on the shade of purple!
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It’s say lavender, or a deep bluish purple. Those are my favorites.
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Ooooh…. Deep bluish purple! That would be lovely.
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It is far better to light the world with sparkles than to fear the darkness! Now, go put on those shoes and do a sparkle dance…they will thank you. I do too, Thank-you!
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Will do! But what about the socks? Maybe lacy anklets? I might as well go all out. 🙂
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Definitely sparkly tights!
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Yeah. I’ll look like a disco ball. LOL
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If sparkly shoes get a little lonely you can send them to my house. I have plenty of sparkle in my closet to keep them company. You’re never too old for a little sparkle in your life.
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Yes. I think it’s kinda cool sparkles can make rainbows, too. They’re gifted.
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Love this! Everyone has something good to contribute to this world, no matter what age. Thanks so much for visiting my blog. It’s great to connect with you! Jenny Oh… I love sparkles 🙂
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I think we all have something new and different to contribute to this world during each phase of life. Nice to know you’re also a lover-of-sparkles. The best place to find sparkles is in fairy dust. 🙂
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Yes! I’m known for buying a greeting card, then adding glitter to a little part of the design so I can give it a personal touch 🙂
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That’s a really cool idea!
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OH PERFECTION!!!!! Wowowowwowowow!!!!
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Yeah, the rainbows are so cool, right? 🙂
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Love this!!!
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Yaaaay! Long live sparkles and rainbows.
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I love sparkles! Your sparkly shoes are brilliant and might I say better than a unicorn! They make their own rainbows in the sunshine and that is magic my friend! 💟
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And there’s nothing better than magic. It’s the best. 🙂
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What at amazing story, Beautiful “rainbow” photo and a nice message behind it all.
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Thank you so much. I really appreciate that you enjoyed the message behind all this.
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I hope you brought those sparkly shoes home with you! I hope even more that you will wear them and show yourself just how cool they look. If you feel that way, so will the world. Or else…too bad! Get your sparkle on!
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I did bring the sparkly shoes home with me. If I’m wearing a more conservative outfit, and the sparkly shoes are on my feet, I feel they are making a statement. It’s as if they’re saying, “Cathi is not 16 years old so she’s wearing a more classic outfit. But if you look down at her feet, you’ll remember that young and playful girl is still there.”
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Yes!!! Cathi is her own woman, sparkles and all!
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That sums it up! Thank you so much!
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I love today’s lesson – “No matter how old we get, we can find inner beauty and bring it into the world.” So true!!
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I’m so glad you connected with that thought. It’s what keeps me going when I start to doubt myself.
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I think I have a lot to write here, Cathi 🙂
Loved those shoes. Sparkles plus those beautiful googly eyes. I just fell for them.
It sometimes takes another person to actually tell us our worth. Look at the beautiful rainbow made by the shoe. It was so unaware of it’s capabilities while sitting in that pouch in the corner of a shop.
And most importantly, the material of the show might get older and wither out, but those sparkles and the rainbows will remain intact for a much longer time. Once we discover those inner sparkles, the rainbows that we create using those sparkles will touch many lives and will linger on much after we are gone. May all of us find those inner sparkles and if we are ourselves not able to do that, may we find that one person who can actually get us out of the bag and put us on a window pane so that we discover those sparkles through the rainbows we create.
I don’t have a sparkly shoe and it has made into my shopping list already.
Love, Deepa.
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I absolutely love that you wrote:
“And most importantly, the material of the show might get older and wither out, but those sparkles and the rainbows will remain intact for a much longer time. ”
To me, that says it all. Thank you!
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😊👍🏻
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Cathi your inner beauty sparkles in everything you write 🌹
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Aaaah. Elaine. You just made my day. Thank you so much. You’re a beautiful person.
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You’re welcome 😉
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Really lovely.
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Thank you so much. I’m glad it meant something to you.
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I love a happy ending, Cathi. I have a sparkly scarf I love to wear. And I have some shoes that are very comfortable that have a metallic sheen – does that count? Anyway, what I really want are sneakers that light up when I walk and I don’t even care if someone thinks I’m trying to look like a four year old. Why don’t they make these for adults?
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I can’t believe you want the light up sneakers! So do it! I’ve had the same thoughts when I see them in stores! I wonder why they don’t make them for adults. In fact, there are many times I walk past a clothing store for children and say to myself, “I’d buy that if they made it in my size.” 🙂 I’m not kidding.
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I know what you mean!
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Ooh! This is soooo lovely! Totally love this conversation! And you know what? Just wear those sparkles whenever you feel like it, I´ve learned that those who wrinkle their noses at you for that actually are totally jealous because you have the guts to dot it! 😀 😉
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Right! Here’s another way to look at it, I think. When I put together an outfit, each piece of clothing can represent a different phase of life. So if I look at my hair accessory, I’m about 25. If I look at my sweater, I’m over 50. If I look at my jeans, I’m 35. And if I look at my shoes, I’m 4. 🙂
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Hehe! For me it would be like this: hair accessory – 16, shirt – 6 (it´s a Micky Mouse print I fear!! 😀 ), jeans – 20-soemthing and shoes – 80!! (I really like them comfy 😉 )
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Haaaaa! I LOVE this combination! You know, this could be the start of something big. 🙂
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What an adorable story! I really needed to read this today! I could not agree more nor said it any better than Deepasthoughts comment above. Love it!
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Thank you! And I agree, Deepasthoughts said it all. I hope you wear something sparkly today. 🙂
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The more sparkles the better I say! I had a conversation with a knot last week – did you see it?https://soulgifts.com.au/2018/04/05/knots/
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Somehow I missed the knot conversation and just read it. Love it! My son is a mathematician and I remember he once told me there’s a lot of math involved with knots as well. Long live knots!
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Geez, you just can’t get away from maths can you! Never got my head around it very well. Maybe that’s why my knotting skills are a bit lacking 🙂
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I’m terrible in math, too. My son told me the mathematics found in knots is quite sophisticated, so don’t fret over it. Loved your conversation–without the math. 🙂
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Cathi, love this! It is fun to read your posts! Not giving a “Flying Fig” what other people think?
I’m there! I am now……and it’s a great feeling.
Bring on the Sparkle!
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Wow! Not giving a hoot is key–and it sounds like you’re totally there. You’re my idol. 🙂 🙂
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Cathi, this one really made me smile! I love how you take such meaningful, thought-provoking topics and weave them into light-hearted stories…Kudos!
So, I say convention should be avoided at all costs! Let’s wear those sparkles well into our 90s lol….Well, it may be even more accepted in our 90s because society may deem us too crazy to know better at that stage. I just thought of how awesome that would be: having the absolute freedom to act, dress, as we please and no one would think twice of it.
I digress, as I tend to do….In all seriousness, I think we should wear whatever we damn well please. My mother recently tried on a knee-length skirt (Knee-length, you heard me right??!?) and claimed it was too short for someone of her “age”!!! Oh boy, that made me laugh hard. And this is a woman who has an exceptionally fit body for, dare I say it….”someone of her age” lol….but such is the societal conditioning which she too has absorbed. “It would not be deemed appropriate for an elderly woman to parade about in such a scandalous skirt!!! Too funny.
The only way we are ever going to break through these imposed barriers to our personal expression is by well, breaking through them and just simply disregarding them. I think like many social constraint, we are our own worst enemies as we help perpetuate and maintain the “status quo” of containment.
I say “wear those sparkly shoes with pride and pomp”…
~Wilde
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I have gone through so many phases related to “what I’m too old to wear.” It would be incredibly freeing to dump all those thoughts in the garbage. I went through the “too short skirt” phase and got past it. I went through the “too old for black sequins” phase and got past it. I went through the “weird eye glasses” phase and got through it. Now I’m in the sparkle phase–and three pairs of sparkle shoes in my closet are begging me to wear them. How will I get past this one? I live in the suburbs where people tend to dress somewhat conservatively. Maybe I need to move to a city where “anything goes.” It would be an expensive move just to get over my sparkle obsession, but maybe it’s worth it. LOL (Although… maybe there’s a less complicated way to solve this problem. ) 🙂
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Hmmm, I’ll give it some thought and let you know if I come up with anything…
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We lose our sparkle when we forget to use our imagination–
Lucky the yellow brick road’ll take us there!
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Yes. I think we should all move there. Permanently.
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🤣🤣the glitter will get stuck in my wrinkles.” Love this statement right here, I can certainly identify
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Ha ha. Maybe wrinkly glitter isn’t so bad?
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I think the glitter will definitely hide the wrinkles 😁
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Great point. Why get Botox when you can cover those wrinkles with sparkles? 🙂
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😂😂😂 I will remember that
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Ha ha!!!!
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Discovering our inner beauty is the main advantage of aging, I think.
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Aaaah. Ann, as always, you’re spot on. I couldn’t find the words, but you did.
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So glad you didn’t neglect the sparkle shoes.
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Ha ha! I do love them. 🙂
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I don’t know you Cathi, but I can already tell that sparkles are part of the essential you. You can’t reject your style, your essence. And you absolutely can’t reject such thoughtful, intelligent and personable shoes.
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Wow. You speak the truth–no one should reject her/his style and essence. We need to recognize them own them, and appreciate them. Thank you so much for your perceptive and encouraging words.
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Oh what lovely shoes! They look like the sparkly shoes I’ve loved for so long but never bought because they’re just not my style and I don’t know how to wear them.
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Sometimes I buy sparkly things and other “out there” clothing even though I’m not sure how I’m going to wear them. Sometimes I figure out a way to make an outfit, other times they sit in my closet, but I smile when I see them anyway. 🙂
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I do that sometimes. I also have clothes sitting in my closet waiting for the day that I’ll be able to wear them.😄
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Yup. I bought a black, velvet dress and then put on a few pounds. The dress is waiting for me to take off the extra weight so I can wear it. It’s a very patient dress.
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Very patient indeed! I guess all women have patient dresses. We all have dresses waiting in our closets, whether for the time we lose some weight or just for an appropriate occasion to wear them.
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Excellent the do’s and do nots because of our age. Perhaps we have earnest the right to wear whatever we want! But do I dare? Love love this!❤️🙃
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So happy I made you smile!!
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My kids love sparkle shoes because they’re pretty and they, too, discovered they can make rainbows. I like sparkles, too, but like you said it seems it may be hard to find comfortable shoes that are sparkly. Or that you’re trying to hard to look young. But I think subtle sparkle is okay!
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Tell the sparkly shoes not to get lonely. Someone loves them over here😹😹
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Lol, good morning Cathi! This read made my morning. I love the lashes on Sparkly Shoes, and how each shoe has it own individual personality. Making a rainbow by the window is a good use of time. Thanks for the smiles. 🙂 🙂 🙂 :)…
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Hi Eartha! Every sparkly shoe should always have its own personality. LOL. Your comment made me smile today. So nice to know you’re a fan of sparkles and rainbows, like me. We can never get enough of them. 🙂 🙂
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Your writing is incredible and expresses so well everything I am going through. Nice to find someone feeling much of what I feel these days. You express it so much better than I do.
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I have read your posts and you express yourself beautifully. It’s so nice to meet you!
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I am thrilled to meet you! It is so wonderful to find someone who sees things from this same perspective. (aging?) I love your writing and I intend to slowly go and read all your pieces. Thank you for your kind comments.
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I’m following your blog as well! 🙂
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Should be fun!
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I had to come back to this one because it something I so often struggle with. I have clothes that I love that are super comfortable, but Wonder if they make me look silly , like they are for a younger person. I struggle with that concept of what is appropriate for my age a lot. But I find that things have changed so much since I was a young person. The delineation seems to be gone. Everyone wears leggings for example. When I was in my 20s I would not want my mom to wear the same thing I did. My daughter and I both wear leggings for instance. And I wonder where do I fit in?
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I wonder where I fit in with that sort of thing too. A few days ago, I noticed someone wearing silver sparkle sneakers–all sparkles. I thought they were cool. They I looked upward and noticed the woman wearing them looked in her late sixties. It didn’t sit right with me–though I’m not proud to say this. Maybe sparkles are cool for “older” women, but not on overload.
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